Romance for Deb13

Past present Future 

Past

The Four of Wands is a card of joyful celebration, blissful happiness and appreciation for the good things in life. When the Four of Wands is in the past position, you invested effort and commitment wisely and the payoff established the foundation upon which you have since stood. Usually, it is some coming surprises most often foretold by the Four of Wands, but in the past position, you have had that wonderful moment of payout and are still feeling the glow of knowing the great joy that life can bring.

Relationship for Sharyn11

Love and relationships

Your Feelings 

The Five of Swords turns up when you have had a falling out, disagreement or conflict, and you are walking away with a sense of sadness and loss. You may be upset and resentful over the heated words you said and now wish you could take back. ‘Bad blood’ and a general ‘icky-ness’ hang over you as your relations have turned sour.

Even if you won the argument or came out the apparent victor, you realise that you have lost as much as (or more than) your opponent. This battle has cost you trust, respect or dignity, and isolated you. As you try to pick up the pieces and set the conflict behind you, you find it‘s more difficult than you thought; others have lost faith in you and are keeping their distance. You will need to decide whether your point of view is so important to you that you’re willing to put your relationships in jeopardy, or if you can compromise and see eye-to-eye.

General for Deb13

Theme for the month

Suspension - The Hanged Man is the card of ultimate surrender, of being suspended in time and of martyrdom. The Hanged Man reminds you that sometimes you have to put everything on hold before you can take the next step, or the Universe will do it on your behalf (and it may not always be at the most convenient time!). You may have heard the saying, ‘What got you here won’t get you there’, and that indeed is at play in this card. The Hanged Man calls you to release the old mental models and behavioural patterns that no longer serve you so you can see your world from a new perspective and embrace new opportunities that would have otherwise been hidden from you if you didn’t hit the brakes.